2016 marks the 5th Christmas without Mama.
So, as you might imagine, this can be a very difficult time of year for me, my brother, and my kids-not to mention my Dad who misses her terribly.
Of course, the first Christmas without her was extremely difficult as she had not been long gone.
Oh yes loves, please believe, that first Christmas, Lady G was a hot mess!
You see, Mama loved Christmas and she adored Christmas Carols!
And because those freaking Christmas Carols were being played EVER-Y-WHERE, a hot mess got even hot messier!
Let me affirm that it was not unusual, that year, for Lady G to find herself running out of Publix with snot and tears flowing North, South, East and West!
Maybe ‘mess’ is NOT the best word to describe the resulting mayhem!
Anyway…
No matter where I went, I was forced to listen to all of her favorites, including:
“Merry Christmas Baby” by Otis Redding
“Please come home for Christmas” by Charles Brown
“The Christmas Song” by Nat King Cole
“Everyday will be like a Holiday” by William Bell
“Christmas just ain’t Christmas” by the O’Jays
“Santa Claus is comin’ to town” by The Jackson Five
“Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer” by The Temptations
And of course, the ‘Tempting Tempts’ version of “Silent Night.”
Baby, every time I heard one of these little ditties, I melted in tears like Frosty!
And so…
One day, after the 78th Christmas carol meltdown, I went shopping for some holiday decorations when…lo and behold…there appeared Mama in the form of a beautiful Black Christmas Angel!
Y’all, I think I trampled some folks in my haste to grab that Mama-esque heavenly body!!!!!
Best believe I grabbed her, purchased her, took her home, place her atop my Christmas tree and proclaimed:
“Look at Mama on the tree!”
And from that Christmas to this one, Mama sits proudly on the tree watching over us all!
Christmas has been pretty good ever since!
Merry Christmas to you all!
With Love,
Lady G 😘💋
P.S. I still have to wear headphones at the store in order to keep my composure!
Merry Christmas sis!
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Thanks Sis! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
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She’s beautiful!!
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Thank you Paula!
🙂
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Great piece! I feel this. Sorry about your mom Lady G. Loss in general is tough, nonetheless around the holidays.
Where did you find that black angel!? I have been looking all over for one! We have a white angel that we could put at the top of the tree buttttttt I don’t play those games so the tree has been angel-less for quite some time , lol.
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LOL @ “I don’t play those games..”
Thank you Bro D!
Can you believe I found her at Lowes? Do you guys have Lowes? It’s a home and hardware type store ✨
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Word … Lowes?! Yes, we have that here. I never would’ve thought to check there. I have been checking the Christmas Tree Shop and little stores like that. I’ll have to swing by Lowes then! I gotta stop sleeping on them! Thanks fam!
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My pleasure love😉
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❤
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Mama would tell you to take that damn thing off of that tree and then laugh her ass off!
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You idiot! Stop trolling my blog!!!!
That’s my baby brother y’all!
ROTFLMAO!!!
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Awe…I know you miss your precious Mama. I’m so sorry Darlin but I’m so happy you found Mama angel for the tree topper. I bet she’s looking down from heaven so proud 💗
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Thank you so much sweet Lennon!
💞
It makes me feel so much better to know that she is still ‘around.’
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Holidays are hard in the absence of parents or grandparents. My grandfather used to play Otis Redding all the time. Still to this day I can’t listen to Sittin’ On The Dock of the Bay without that tinge in my heart. I can’t even imagine what you feel when missing your beautiful mom.
I liked that you started a new tradition in her memory-finding her angel to watch over you. When I lived abroad, I started collecting glass ornaments that reminded me of family. Let’s just say I could use a second tree 🙂 Happy Holidays! It’s truly been a joy to follow your blog.
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Aww….Thank you Ellie 🙂
“Dock of the Bay” still does a number on me too!
Mama loved “The Big O!”
And…it makes me very happy to know that you enjoy my blog just as much as I enjoy yours! 💖
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Hey Lady G, I’d like to sympathise but I think it’s best for me to say thank you on behalf of all of us that you had the Mama you had. Seeing your list of her favorite Christmas songs reminds me of how we found each other, music being our mutual love and Mama Eva being the one to sow the seeds of soul in you. She lives on in your heart Girl and celebrate that fact.. I’ll play the Temptations’ Silent Night and toast to the gift your Mama left behind. I’m sure she smiles each time you smile so no need to be sad. As you say, give thanks for the blessing you had in the influential character you had in your mother.
I hope that you and your family will have a blessed Christmas and great abundance in the new year! Chevvy!😘😘😘😘
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Wow what a beautiful response 🙂
And yes, Mama planted musical seeds that brought you and I together in order to share some really good times.
As you toast, please know that I am toasting right back at you dear friend.
Many blessings to you and your family Chevvy! I know that you’re in a different season but the sentiment remains the same! Merry Christmas! 💋
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I’m so sorry about your mom, Gwin. I can imagine it’s a hard time for you and your family right now. My mom has one of these same angels on her tree too! The one she has has blonde hair though. Her whole Christmas tree is filled with angels of different shapes and sizes. Just think when you hear one of the songs she liked, she’s looking over you.
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Awww…thank you Lisa! That’s a very lovely way to think about it💞
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A beautiful story, and such a beautiful angel. Wishing you and your family a blessed Christmas. 🙂
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Thank you so much Brenda. I really appreciate that 🙂
May you and yours have a blessed Christmas too💞
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Thank you, Lady G. 🙂
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This a truly moving post Gwin. Music will always bring back memories, or strike up emotions, even with the first few bars.
It was brave of you to hang on there with those songs, your Mama would be watching and nodding approval I’m sure. And she’ll be there with your this Christmas.
A Happy Christmas to your and your family Gwin.
Roger
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Aww…thank you Roger! You know the power of music very well 🙂
And as for Mama watching and nodding…I think you’re right 🙂
Happy Christmas to you and yours too my friend 🙂
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Wow this post was so heartfelt. I can’t imagine the pain that Christmas brings. Hope you all the best during this time of the year.
With love Alia
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Thank you so much for such a warm comment.
It does get a little better each year but never the same as it was when she was here.
I wish you all the best as well my friend 🙂
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Sorry about your Mama, Lady G. It has been 4 years since my Mom passed away. So I can sympathize & empathize with you. The first couple of years are still difficult but with the passage of time it lessens. Every day I think about her. Have a Happy Holiday & I am so glad that she is an angel watching over you.
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I am sorry about your Mom as well Susan. You understand how it feels.
Like you, there is no day that passes that I don’t think of my Mom.
But I am blessed that she was here with me when I needed her most.
You know, I often feel sorry for people who lost their mothers at very young ages–especially girls who need that female guidance.
Happy holidays to you and your family and remember you also have an angel watching over you too 🙏🏾
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Thanks Lady G! I wish the same for you & your family.
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Now I know it wasn’t easy to post those Christmas songs…but you pushed through. Thanks for sharing that story and the memory, even if it is difficult for you. But Mama’s On The Tree now, so she will be watching you…
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Awwww…thank you my Twin!
It is a little tough but Mama got her eye on all of us 🙂
LOL!!
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I’m sure she does.
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Aunty`s favourite Christmas hits were mine too. Those are classics. Aunt Eva was a classic as well. You’re so blessed to have her watching over you and yours.
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Thank you Cuz.
You were one of her faves so I’d like to think that she’s watching over you too 🙂
BTW, I knew you’d like those Christmas jams 🙂
💋
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Yep
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a beautiful angel who made beautiful angels ❤ You're the best, hot mess or otherwise, hugs and love, K
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Awww!! Thank you Kim! That is so sweet 🙂
Lots of hugs and much love right back to you 🙂
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Lady G I can relate with you. My dad passed away 2 years ago in the new year. Not easy. But you have your mom on your tree and she is definitely watching over you all. Merry Christmas.
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I’m so sorry to hear about your Dad my friend.
I know that wasn’t easy at all.
Thank you so much for your kind words and for stopping by 🙂
Merry Christmas to you 🙂
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I’m very happy you found your Mom/Angel, actually it sounds a little bit like fate – or maybe the Magic of Christmas!!
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Thank you GP!
I love that thought!
By the way, I really do believe in Christmas magic 🙂
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I sure hope so – It’s Real!!
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It is VERY real ✨
Merry Christmas to you and your family 🙂
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ENJOY!! Lady G, make it one of the very best!!
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Wow!! How sweet is that? Thank you! And I wish all the same and more to you and yours🌹
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Much appreciated!!
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Wow Lady G it was courageous to share every detail of this special moment. Wow such power. I actually got tears in my eyes from reading this..
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Thanks Tareau! You can be quite the gentleman when you want to 🙂
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A very good post. Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you 🙂
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You are welcome!
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