Please enjoy this conversation featuring Michelle, the therapist with myself and Dr. K. E. Garland. In this discussion, we talk about motherhood and mothering adults vs younger children.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of the mothers out there!
LadyG loves YOU!😘💋
Yep! Lady G’s been up since 7:00am EST!
Cooking in the kitchen!
Oh yeah, Daddy is here to help Lady J and I with the garden project that I blogged about last week!
Meatloaf and mashed potatoes are his favorite…sooo…
But ya know what?
It’s raining cats and dogs here in Georgia and Lady J says it’s not supposed to stop until next Sunday!
That’s not what I wanted to hear!
Let’s just pray that she’s giving me 11-year-old hyperbole!
By the way, here’s a picture of Daddy during his days in the United States Air Force-circa 1965.
Daddy spent a whole bunch of time in Germany!
Hence the word “Germany” tacked up on his Military Police Beret.
If you’ve been following this blog, you probably already know that I’ve always wanted to go there.
My son says that when I’m about 90 years old he plans to sit me on his future back-porch, point to a bunch of trees and say, “Hey mama! Look at all that Germany back there! ”
He swears I won’t know the difference! LOL!!
Anywhats….Have a great week my friends. I promise to keep you posted about the garden:)
Love and light to you!
PS: Ron Brown! I’m saving yet another plate for you Cuz! 💞
***This post is a follow up to First of the Fall
In “First of the Fall,” I shared that Lady J and I were planning to enjoy the first day of fall.
And we did!
First, we went to the Hamlet of Subway in order to secure provisions for a leisurely lunch in the park.
After examining their menu, we decided to purchase a portion of roasted beast atop flattened bread-replete with any number and kind of vegetables from the farmer’s harvest.
Best believe we added a tankard of sweet tea and a bag of chips 😉
I’m partial to salt and vinegar! Lady J opted for BBQ kettle chips.
After leaving the good people at Subway, Lady J and I began a journey that ended at a local park.
There we commenced to enjoy our meal and take in the day.
But, alas, a bell began to toll!
Lady J was immediately startled-yet intrigued!
What, pray tell, was that ruckus?
Naturally, I told her that it was the town’s bell informing the villagers that the time was, indeed, 12:00!
After the 12th stroke, Lady J queried, “Aren’t you glad that it’s 12:00 in the day and NOT 12:00 midnight?”
To which I immediately responded, “I know right?!”
But, then, a strange thing happened.
Another bell in the village began to strike 12.
Then, shortly after that one stopped, yet another!
Methinks the bells are out of sync!
What to do?
Oh well! We decided that it might be best to consult with The Lord of I-Phone.
And, to Lady J’s point, we were able to happily confirm that it was 12:00 midday and NOT 12:00 midnight.
At any rate, the conversation took a slight shift to the days of yore when nightfall was, indeed, a very scary time. In fact, we rode that train of thought right into tales of the nightwatchmen who were tasked with walking about the town in order to insure the safety of the community.
No street lights.
No cell phones.
Just a man with a candle or lantern and maybe some sort of primitive contraption for self defense–or as Lady J said, “A stick!”
Predecessors to law enforcement!
After giving it some thought, we both concluded that neither of us were cut out for such a task.
Apparently neither are some of them dirty police out there shooting innocent Black men dead for no reason…
But I digress.
The ladies agreed that the time had come to take leave of the park.
And thus ended a wonderful conversation and a lovely lunch.
Have you guys ever heard of the Nightwatchman of Rothenburg in Germany? I saw Rick Steves raving about it.
Has anybody been on that tour or a similar one?
I am definitely going to put a nightwatchman tour on my bucket list! I love stuff like that!
I told y’all I was a geek! LOL!
My friend Lisa A. over at Life of an El Paso Woman tagged me with the Superpower Challenge. Lisa is an awesome blogger! Some of you have, no doubt, met her at a “My Jams” afterparty. That said, she’s a regular around these parts and I enjoy bantering back and forth with her in comments.
If you haven’t had a chance to meet Lisa, you should! Start by checking her out at Life of an El Paso Woman. She’s always got something fun and interesting going on over there.
I love lurking around that joint.
Thanks for nominating me for this challenge Lisa!
The rules are as follows:
- Name the creator of this tag . FarahEdz @ The Girl With Coffe
- Use the Tag image above.
- Thank your superhero Nominator – Lisa A.
- Which or what super power would you want and why?
Friends, for this challenge, I decided to really, really, really think about the superpower that I’d want to have most. I mean I gave it some serious thought!
I finally settled on being about to teleport!
For those of you who love defining terms, here’s a definition:
Teleport: To transport or be transported across space and distance instantly. (From http://www.oxforddictionaries.com)
Anyway, I decided that if I am going to be transported across space and distance instantly, I’ll need some DEEP, DEEP, DEEP POCKETS!
Somebody, somewhere is saying, “Hey…wait Gwin, doesn’t LOVE make the world go ’round?”
Well in the words of my wise Aunt Bobbie Sue, “Love might make the world go ’round but money greases the wheel!”
So, to sum it up, I’d like to be able to have 10 tons of money and be able to appear anywhere-instantaneously ! By the way, I retain the right to be able to teleport anybody else along with me!
I’m doing this my way!
Alright Gwin, how does that look?
It looks a little something like this:
I would visit family, friends and blogging buddies who live in different cities and we would:
- Cook, talk, laugh and eat together
- Go to our favorite restaurants (Are you seeing a pattern here? LOL!)
- Have cocktails! A must for me!
Since Mr. Rogers is my spirit guide, I would offer comfort and support where there is illness, injury, hurt, suffering or loss.
I would continue my love of learning by:
- Going to libraries at major Universities all over the world
- Attending events, lectures, talks, and conferences on the Arts and Sciences
- Observing various artisans practice and hone their crafts (sculptors, luthiers/archetiers and other makers of beautiful musical instruments and wonderful things).
- Learning to prepare gourmet meals from world renowned chefs and food artisans! Food glorious food!
- Sitting with and listening to spiritual teachers and practitioners of major world religions and magic 😉
- Seeking advice and guidance from my elders
- Teaching those who are interested in learning anything that I already know. You can learn a great deal by teaching!
- Going to museums worldwide
- Talking to inventors, astronomers, nautical experts and keepers of information on space and time.
I would seek inspiration and delight by teleporting to
- Musical festivals, concerts, and shows all over the world
- A Mountain in Northern California
- A sunset sailboat ride on a lake in Canada
- A winding road lined with brown, gold and auburn autumn leaves in Vermont.
- A crab festival on the East Coast
- The Mediterranean Sea
- A hiking trail near an Alpine village
- An African Savanna
- A South African beach
- A picnic in New Orleans
- A winery near The Eiffel Towel
- A biergarten in Germany during Oktoberfest
- A boat ride in the Carribbean
- A Sunday dinner in Florence, Italy and shopping in Milan
- High tea in an English home
- A starry Spanish night
- A soothing garden meditation
- I could go on but I think I’d better quit now before I lose you!
Now that I think about it, maybe all I really need is some time, a whole bunch of money, friends on every continent, a chauffeur service and a freakin’ jet aeroplane!
By the way, thanks to blogging, I can happily report that I’ve met the aforementioned friendship goal 🙂
I’m still working on the others! LOL!
Friends, why don’t you try this? Create a post that tells us about your dream powers!
Maybe you can make some of them come true!
What a fun challenge Lisa!
Alright, I’ll admit that the picture above was NOT taken in Germany-at least not the real Germany. Of course, If you are familiar with the flora and fauna native to Germany then you probably already knew that. Now, if you feel that I led you astray, please accept my apologies. Maybe I can make it up to you later. So, with that said, I hope that you will indulge me a little bit and join me here as I tell you about my imaginary Germany.
Now, you might be wondering why I created an imaginary Germany. Well, in order to answer that question, I’ll need to offer a bit of background. By the way, now is a great time to go get a beverage to enjoy while I regale you with this nostalgic tale. Anyway, when I was a little girl, my dad used to tell me all about these magnificent German castles that he saw as a young military police officer in the United States Air Force. If memory serves, dad mentioned being stationed at Sembach Air Base which was located near Kaiserslautern, Germany. By the way, he also mentioned a place called Grunstadt. Now I can’t tell you a thing about how these places are related, all I know is that Kaiserslautern and Grunstadt are both located somewhere in Germany. At any rate, Dad’s castle stories were the perfect foundation for my imaginary Germany.
Interestingly, Dad wasn’t my only source for tales about Germany. As fate would have it, when I was about 4 years old, we moved next door to a lady who was from Pirmasens. Where, pray tell, is Pirmasens? You guessed it! Germany! Needless to say, as I grew older, I worried this poor lady to death with all kinds of questions about Deutschland. One of my biggest thrills was listening to her speak German with friends and family. Even though I couldn’t understand a word they said, I had fun pretending that I could.
As the years progressed, this neighbor, as well as her son, became like a second family for me. Whenever I visited them, I would admire the beautiful steins that she kept in a huge mahogany cabinet near a big brown cuckoo clock. I remember being so curious about the German artisans who crafted each item. Though I didn’t know anything about them, it was pretty clear to me that there was some manner of sorcery involved in the creation of that cuckoo clock. Why you ask? Because it accurately predicted the weather! You heard me! That clock predicted the weather! My neighbor told me that if the little man popped out of the clock it would be sunny and if the lady came out we could expect rain. Believe it or not, the clock was never wrong! Now if that’s not magic, I just don’t know what is!
By the time I was a teenager, my neighbor would ‘hire me’ to water her garden and care for her dogs whenever she went back to Pirmasens. To say that she had a green thumb was an understatement. Every spring and summer her garden was filled with a wonderful array of vibrantly colored flowers. Needless to say, when she was away, I did my best to keep everything just as she had left it. Who cares that she paid me with German chocolate bars! I didn’t mind! I enjoyed the work. By the way, have you ever tasted genuine German chocolate candy bars? So good!
Suffice it to say, after years and years of secondhand exposure to Germany, my imaginary Germany grew to be quite robust!
Right now, I can only dream about going to the real Germany. But, while I wait for this dream to become a reality, I go to imaginary Germany to take alpine hikes and dream of castles, steins, psychic cuckoo clocks, gardens and chocolate bars.
Could somebody please ask Rick Steves if he needs a co-host for his next tour in Germany.
Where in the world do you want to go?