Please enjoy this conversation featuring Michelle, the therapist with myself and Dr. K. E. Garland. In this discussion, we talk about motherhood and mothering adults vs younger children.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of the mothers out there!
LadyG loves YOU!😘💋
Oh boy! The conversation is getting juicy!
The louder I get the more thick my southern accent becomes! LOL!
As you know, Dr. Garland’s subject matter centers around male/female relationships. In this session, we continue our conversation from part 2 on the differences between men and women.
Please be sure to follow Dr. Garland and Michelle! You can link to them via the first or second post of this interview.
The trademark orange bowl!
LadyG is cooking again!
Today, let us consider the old adage:
“The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.”
Well… I don’t know if it’s true in every case, but it sure did work for me and Mama.
But not really…
No, seriously folks, while the quote points to the way to a man’s heart, it doesn’t necessarily guarantee arrival–not to mention–a permanent stay.
Am I rambling?
Maybe this whole thing is a non-issue…
An old wives tale…
Low level philosophical nonsense!
But…maybe there’s some truth to it…
The debate continues 🙂
Have a wonderful week my friends!
Love and light to you all!
What do you think ladies and gentlemen? Feel free to comment below!
Alternate Title: Your New Year’s What NOT “To Do” List!
Like a lot of folks raised in the South, Mama had some STRONG beliefs about what you could or could NOT do on New Year’s Day.
And baby, we all knew to cooperate- or ELSE!
In fact, one of my dearest friends, Gloria, calls me every New Year’s Eve to make sure that she is, as she laughingly states, “compliant.”
So typical of a Healthcare Exec 🙂
Anyway, without further adieu, Lady G shall now act as your personal New Year’s Compliance Officer for 2016-2017!
What NOT to do on New Years Day:
- Wash hair ; you are washing someone out of the family if you do.
- Wash clothes; Why? See rule 1. (Just to be safe, she extended that to drying clothes as well).
- Have a Christmas tree, including any associated decorations, still on display.
- Allow a woman be the first person to enter your home after midnight.
- If you are in doubt, please contact me, your personal New Year’s Compliance Officer, in comments before proceeding with most ANY action 🙂
According to Mama, a violation of any of these rules could lead to death, destruction or worse…
By the way, we’re not done…
You must also prepare/procure and consume:
- Green leafy vegetables (Collards, Turnips, Mustards or Kale) to attract foldable money for 2017.
- Black-eyed Peas for good luck in the new year; some say they are also good for attracting coins.
In addition, you should also have some money (debit or credit cards will not suffice) in your pocket when the new year arrives. This ensures that 2017 will not find you…for lack of a better word…BROKE!
Remember, whatever you’re doing when the New Year comes in is what you will likely be doing for the rest of the year!
I don’t know about you but Lady G shall be praying and meditating!
You have been duly warned!
Seriously guys, this was all in fun!
But you best believe that I’m hedging my bets by getting in compliance 🙂
Happy New Year !!!
Much love and light to you!
-Lady G 😘💋
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BROTHER TACK!!!!!!!
I’d love to hear any superstitions, rituals, habits or traditions that you and your family adhere to for New Years!
*** “The Flowering Vine” will continue next Friday, until then, catch up by going to the category labeled, you guessed it, “The Flowering Vine.”
This post is dedicated to all foxy ladies everywhere; if you are a woman that means you!
“Yes honey, I was a fox back in my day!”
This is a picture of me from 20 something years ago. I have a good handle on the year because I was a couple of months pregnant with my son. You might remember him from one of my Sunday shout out posts.
Anyway, from time to time, I find myself telling the young’uns about how much of a fox I used to be. Oh yeah, then I usually have to define ‘fox’ –lest they think I’m talking about a small woodland creature.
But just to be on the safe side, let me be clear, a “fox” is a good looking woman.
Where was I? Oh yeah, I was telling you about my tendency to talk about having once been a fox. Well baby one day after bragging about my former fox status, I caught myself thinking, “Why in the hell am I saying that?”
Or in other words, what matter does it make? Or better yet, WHO GIVES A DAMN!
So what if I ‘used’ to be a fox! Whether that was the case or not, it is of absolutely no consequence at this point in time.
What about now? Well, I’d argue that all you former foxes need to unite with me and together we can work on accepting this whole aging thing. Come on! We need to redefine what it means to be a “fox.” Let’s start by learning to love our graying hair and puffy eyes. And while we’re at it, let’s start to treasure that eternal belly roll that many of us received from giving birth. Don’t get me wrong, we should get and stay in shape for wellness purposes-first and foremost!
Hell that pudge ain’t going nowhere so long as folks believe in the myth of spot reducing-But I digress!
By the way, this isn’t all about looks! It is my belief that our new ‘foxiness’ REQUIRES us to cultivate important traits like kindness, warmth, joy, wisdom, tenderness, generosity, loyalty and reverence for God (how ever God looks to you),mankind, and nature.
Once we are done accepting and cultivating all of the above, we must envelope our new selves with LOVE. I am not kidding ! This is real talk!
And now…let us go forth foxy ladies! We’ve got a new generation of real foxes to raise!